"Because she has begun to act herself,she's become invincible"

Looking back and reflecting I realised what made me insecure or inconfident was the never ending comparison of me with people around me.Comparison kills you,pushes you into an inferno where you burn yourself everyday but I was courageous enough to get myself out of it.I had burns and scars which will always keep me aware of the fact that once I wasnt myself.Gladly,I climbed step by step,focused on exploring my skills, polished them,earned a title and it was the most wholesome experience.This lead me towards a path where I never want to look back or dwell on the past worst events.I m a constellation of all my scars that define who exactly I was and who I am now.I have protruded in the society as a strong lead who can voice her thoughts and people will turn around to hear what she has to say. Thats basically the first step.This unprecedented experience has inclined me more towards self growth so I can emerge stronger as a women.Now where do I stand? Many think I still might seek validations whereas the fact is I am past that too which is the second step;you grow enough to toss others validations into trash but only your own matters.Real life begins when you stop caring about other people's opinions.I have been acting myself lately which is as beautiful,I wish more people could be themselves rather than blindly following the patterns. When you make boundaries by being yourself you become more valuable.And ultimately you stop chasing but attracting people towards you. So stand tall and speak yourself.Believe me the most vital part of life is to be yourself when you stop revolving around ideologies made by others but make yours only.