FINANCIAL DEPENDENCY OF WOMEN ON MEN.

I don’t know if women who depend on their partners for money find it ideal. Personally, I don’t think it’s a good situation, and I wouldn’t advise any woman to do that. I have several reasons for saying this.

When a man is the sole provider, think about the stress, pressure, and panic a woman might experience if all the money or wealth is suddenly lost. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone, but if you haven’t experienced it, talk to those who have. This situation doesn’t just affect the man but also the woman, and if not addressed quickly, it can impact the children as well. As a parent, you wouldn’t want your kids to go through that. As a woman or a mother, it’s important to take time to consider how you will earn and manage your own finances.

Ask yourself: what would happen if your husband lost his job? For some, it would mean cutting expenses, and it might even become difficult to afford basic needs. For others who are more fortunate, there may be savings. But how long will those savings last? Some may have the added benefit of their partner owning a business, but how much revenue does that business generate weekly or monthly? What’s the profit? Do you think the business alone could sustain you and your family long enough?

I don’t wish financial struggles on anyone, but I do believe women should ensure they aren’t solely relying on their partners for financial stability. For those of us who aren’t married yet, let’s remember this lesson and strive to be financially independent.

Owning your own business is a great thing, especially when it’s doing well. However, we often forget how unpredictable the world can be, and that includes the stability of our businesses. Disasters can happen, and they can affect everything. That’s why it’s essential not to "put all your eggs in one basket." If your husband is the only one providing for the family, what would happen if his income were suddenly cut off? Would you feel stressed or worried? If you would, do you have a plan on how you would maintain your sanity and how you and your husband or you would solve that problem?

As long as you are healthy, don’t just stay at home waiting for your husband to bring in all the money. It wouldn’t hurt to work and gain some financial freedom, would it? Imagine being able to pay for your children’s holidays, toys, swimming lessons, or trips to amusement parks without having to ask your husband for the money. How would you feel if he told you he didn’t have enough funds at the moment? And how much better would it feel to be able to cover those expenses yourself?

To all wives, mothers, and girls, let’s be responsible and ensure we can provide for ourselves and those we care for. It will definately take effort and commitment, especially when you have others depending on you, but I assure you, it will be worth it in the long run.

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