need for change of attitude by men in India

Sisters, I've been praying for guidance, reading posts made by women in India and wonder whether we should start with father's of girls. I come up with many reasons girls are seen as a burden, instead of a jewel, but would like some imput about why some Indian dads love their daughters and some see them as a liability. Would you please share with me, as I think this might be where we need to start changing males attitudes, which in turn could eliminate violence toward women in India. I've been trying to post in India Cafe, but my computer can't seem to open that. I've been having near-fatal problems with our computer.

Please share with us why some fathers overcome the cultural mentality and love their daughters. Thanks.
blessings,
William