PEOPLE WILL BRING YOU MORE FLOWERS AND LOVE YOU MORE WHEN YOU DEAD THAN WHEN YOU ALIVE

so many people will suffer in silence with no help coming to them not even from people they thought were your family or even friends.making an effort to ask for help will push so many a way from you.they will see you as a burden some will call you name and make fun of you for asking for help. so most people will resort to keeping it to themselves. i happen to have an hospital visit i went to check on a buddy in hospital the guy next to my buddy saw me and started a convesation and she started sobing and i was like omg what is going on .i was like now i have my buddy and stranger to visit . the stranger open up to be how he got so much investments and money and none of that is helping him , he went a head to tell me how he got children two daughters and two sons who dont want nothing to do with him. they cant even come to visit him and if they happen to come they dont want to be near him. i pictured that and felt for him. those were his last words but i had no idea .i was there listening to him talk . he told me how his kids treated hi like a stranger yet he was always there for them ever since their mother died . he tried his best to give them the best education, the best of everything but still the kids rebeled against him.this was a stranger i meet for the first time telling me all his trauma and pain and as a son figure to him i listend .i learned that 'nobody tell you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so many trauma. my convesation with that stranger in the hospital was an eye oppener to me .none of her kids came to see him for the 4 months he was in the hostital no flowers were brought to him. my buddy and myself looked at each other the old man had tears in his eyes . as my visiting sation was coming to an end i had to say goodbye to both the stranger and the buddy promising them that i will check on them the next day visiting hrs. so the next day when i pop in for my visit i noticed the stranges bed empty and thats when i asked my buddy were is the wise old man @ my buddy tells me he pass on but left a note for me . i was so scared i took the note but didnt open it . i thought to myself how those were his last words , he needed to get the off his chest i'm glad my buddy and i was there to listen .when my visiting settion was done went home thinking about that old wise man and the note he left for me .i drove home and the first thing i did was to open the letter guess what i found on the note ...(story for another day ) i made sure i attended the old mans burrial commitee thats when i realize how people love the dead ,when this man was alive nobody wanted to visit him, to bring him all the beautiful expensive things they are now talking about. i listened to all the hyped things their dad was to be buried with and all the million flowers that the family was willing to buy for him. the more they talk the more i remember the last words of that old man. deep down i was burning with words to tell them but again i choose to lay law . i was their dads eyes .i remember their dad telling me how they will treat him like a king when he die and it was so true i saw it with my own eyes it still haunt me todate how people will come across the boader to bury you bring you flowers but will be so comfortable to see you starveto death. none of them will cross astreet to come check on you. my hope is to wish people learn to cherish others when they are alive and can enjoy the flowers and gits,my dream is to make others cherish life more than death i know we human are self centered we rather give when someone is dead rather than when he or she is alive. look at our community when there is death people love it why there is free food , free everthing so community too cherish death more than life its an open opporunity to camp at someonce home and eat.this is something that has been inherited from one generation to the next its hard to let go.if i was to be given beautiful things please do it now , dont wait when i'm dead to bring me flowers and love me more yet i'm dead .i want that love now .this days death is more popular that being alive technology has help people express their fears . keen person will see someone asking for help from the conten he create those who take the content for granted wont see thehelp but will see bullying , name calling , stigmatization only for the person to die!! days later then what follows huge amount of money is contributed the things that was needed when he was 'alive' are of easy reach after he or she no longer needs them. we need to learn to cherish living everyday more than death if you to give the time is now if you helping the time is now make a chage it dosent have to be big and publisized ! you can do it out of social media and cameras because camera feeds your ego and that wont be of any good at all