SOMETIMES A PERFECT FAMILY IS JUST A MOTHER AND HER KIDS
Mar 8, 2024
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margizuu
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affection and loyality women fell for other women together we can do much be your sisters keeper
sisterhood to me is affection and loyality feeling for other women through supporting ,changing lives with the little tools needed at that particular time and as we celebrate womans day today no a mount of wish will make a perfect family as a mother with her kids , mothers know the pain of bringing children to this world! not only will it change her body but it will leave her with scars that will be living with her forever .comes postpartum that get toll of most women and without sisterhood depression might kill a woman most postpartum take si weeks if a woman had a nomal birth while those who had casarean section will need eight weeks to fully recover this is where the sisterhood come in handy . someone once told me if you want to know who your friends are ! have a baby or loose a job ,. childbirth can trigger alot of feeling many women have a period of feeling down , anxious i call it baby blue .this will lead a new mother to be so emotional, cry spell trigarred with anything, trouble sleeping the feeling that wont go a way without a strong support from sisterhood in the family. there are things i have learn that people i call them strangers who are not your blood family will do you good than your own blood . when i see a woman doing anything it takes to be with their kids its because they know the price of bringing this small human to this world, the sleepless sacrifice , clothe soiling with poop, drooles and other thing. women deserve the best in the world . i know some countries that dont value women , they label women as sex object that dont need to be heard or seen, girlchild wont be educated because their family dont see their value which is so wrong .thats where to me sisterhood comes along to educate , to enlighten to show the community that women too need the same opportunity as boy child , showing them how well educated girls can become good world leaders the old mythiology about women should be condemned at whole time .thats why a mother and her children are a perfect family to me . saving girls from toxic family members is my organization dream girls that wont be taken to school but booked for child marriages for echange in gold or money .a mother should not keep quiet when a child is being abused by a family member . i know of a story of a girl who was living with her grand mother she was 7yo she used to leak urin and smell urine all the time the grandmother tried hiding her in the house. once the information was brought on my attention it was time to sav that girl do some justice for her. as a woman i found out that that little girl mother got married with her when she was only six months the step father have been abusing her sexually untill he was caught in the act one day .and becaus the family was afraid of the law they choose to settle it as a family , that was not nice because i belive the monster will do it again . tried following the case the man in question sneaked outside the country and went into hidding so it was really hard posecute him that little gir was taken for special treatment in the hands of childrens home that gave her a face and better enviroment that she can be a child again enjoying her childhood without fear of being sexually abused by the people she trusted.. sistehood is therapy you can grand a nother woman in need . there are so many women going through hard times in life but they wont talk about it until its too late thats when we will be like i wish she talked . yes she did talk but you were busy putting her down . a mother who talks to his children will pick trauma from a child by just how he or she behaves . so a mother is an angel with a scar to guide his children most children do bad things because of social pressure , for fame , for status quo to make others feel they are better than them thats where the mother comes in but most mothers this days dont have time for their kids the social media is bringing kids up .by the time they blink the baby is nolonger a baby but a teenager that can not be corrected .thats why every child need her mother sometimes situations make kids to be raised by other people who are not great benefit to them the kids ends up dead or serving life sentence in prisons , my hope is to stick to my circle of sisterhood as long as i'm alive , change as many lives as i can with the little i have , make a diffrence in my community create an opportunity to young women with great talents because they are the future leaders .the challages i might face is rebelion especially with this generation that dont like to be corrected. my dreams is to see as many young women educated and absorbed in good jobs that only allow men to be the CEO , my dream is to see women talking as one voice , standing to what is best to all women , being eah other sisterskeeper . who will mention another womans name in room full of opportunity. thats the sisterhood i'm building in my comunnity . as we celebrate this mothersday i want to remember all great woman that made me the woman i'm today i want to mentor other young women so they will mention me and celenrate me too for the next dacades from the impact i'm going to leave bend as a strom woman