week three



My challenges in such an impossible yet possible community among other things are , Religious believe,(doctine) adopted as way of life, Traditioal and cultural believes, lack of basis education and enlightment, male over possasiveness and dormination, believe in the suprimency of men and marriage, children syndrome, fear of unknown, single parenthood, economic independance and personal independance. Leadership problem, stability and continuty of programmes and concortized action plan, inheriance tendency of goverance, personalization of public interest,gred, materialism among men. lack of vision and focus, negligence of national aspiration, deceipt, and among all lack of clear cut ideological bloc. These challanges are senonemous with most developing country, and to a larger extend impedi meaningful contribution of ideas from authrorities of women. It has reduce the sociatal struggles to inheritance, with each male passing it to the other, whether capable or not. The ticket and deciding factor is jus being a man and from same ward. The solution to these acute problems are plan action of empirical and coherent thinking from the women. Women are known to be species with high level of deep thinking, conflict resolvers and preventers. The very few women who happens to find their ways to top position should form a kind of resolve to move the society to glorfied position through advancing programmes that will see more women to greater hight, and evoking meaningful policies that will advance the community forward, then to the state, and finally the nation. In my little stay here, i have grown up to discovered that action plans, policies, programme no matter how little or small/big goes with the intiator. Most time intiator of programmes terms to want to be the executors to the final havest. This is not practicable in any community or nation. I have equally not seen or heard of an idealogy bloc through which a given community aspired to achieve. I have come to the realization that empirical thinking has no place in this community. Thus women most set the pace, they have alway done so given the slatest opportunity. This is proven by Dora Akinyili the Drugs boss of NDLEA, Mrs Okonji Oweala of Finance, Eze kwesile of Education Min. to mention a few. Their policies are short living as they existed goverance.The revolutionary seed has already been plainted, the executor are the women. Only but women can execute this programmes effectively without supressing or oppressing any part of the interested party, man, women or children. Opinion pool be respected and created. women agitation be respected for the better tomorrow, More places or opportunity be made available to capable women, and should be listen and respected. formulated policy should be carried out irrespective of who governs to a logical conclusion. A policy on believes whether Religious, cultural and traditional should be reduce to personal conviction, never as yard stick of judging others or serve as merit or ticket to the top. Merit should be embrace in choose of who leds. A holistic idealogy not subjective, personalized be the blue print to pusuit of leadership or top position. Since women are the Executor of this change, pulse wire, can assist in no small way to effecting change, through their continous partnership with women of this community, via building their capacity, serving as data bank, assisting the women to break the fear of being thrown out. choose between independence and domination. build their ability to speak out for themselve and make resolve. A little push will do the magic. pulse wire is a medium of this advocated change in my community. together as partners we will win the race. A community where domination, inequality will be no more. I am a product of pulse wire, so are others in my constituncy Nigeria. togeher we can work or strick a balance to effective change.

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